akanksha k. | cary, nc family photographer

In this business of preserving memories—of capturing the tenderness between a mother and her child, the wonder of new life, and the beautiful chaos of motherhood—there’s an unspoken bond we share as women. We know it takes a village, not only to raise children, but also to support one another through the sacred, messy, and meaningful moments of life.

That’s why I find it deeply disheartening when another mother chooses to tear someone down instead of offering grace, understanding, or the benefit of the doubt.

Recently, Akanksha K. left a public review of my business that was, frankly, filled with inaccuracies. While I typically don’t respond to this kind of thing (I truly believe energy is better spent loving on the clients I do have), I feel it’s important to take a moment to address what this situation really brings to light: integrity—in life, in motherhood, and in business.

Let me be clear: I will not be debunking every falsehood in that review. I don’t have the time or energy, nor do I believe in defending myself to someone who was clearly most interested in defaming. But I will clarify the first thing: she inferred that I rescheduled her session twice. That is simply not true. Specifically Akanksha said, “While we were understanding of those changes, communication throughout was extremely poor.”

The facts are this:

The first reschedule was due to impending bad weather. I was honest about my limitations as a natural light photographer and left the choice entirely up to her. She chose to move the session.
The second reschedule was due to a family emergency on her end, involving her husband. Out of compassion and flexibility, I accommodated her situation—without hesitation.

This is not the behavior of someone trying to avoid a client. This is the behavior of a professional, a mother, and a human being who shows up with transparency and grace.

Unfortunately, the review she left tells a different story—one intended to damage. It reflects more about her character than mine. And while it would be easy to respond in kind, I’ve decided to take the high road.

Because here’s what I believe: Mothers should support each other.

We are already carrying so much—emotionally, mentally, physically. So when one of us chooses to lie, to tear down, to play the role of “Karen” in a world that already judges mothers harshly enough… it’s not just disappointing. It’s destructive.

To the hundreds of families I’ve had the privilege of working with in the Raleigh-Durham area: thank you. Thank you for seeing the heart behind what I do. Thank you for choosing me to document your most precious memories. And thank you for your continued trust, kindness, and belief in integrity.

This season, let’s be the women who uplift. Let’s be the mothers who pause before posting something meant to hurt. Let’s be the ones who choose compassion over criticism. And let’s choose truth over convenience.

With grace,
Mika James Amaya
Photographer | Mother | Woman Who Stands in Truth